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Wednesday, August 6, 2014

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True story -- I had an entire post ready to publish this morning, but decided to delete it at the last minute.

Why?  Well, I basically complained for 5 paragraphs. Here's an excerpt, below:

"It's been one of those weeks.  The house is covered in boxes and pet hair, we've eaten crap at every meal, and I've officially crossed the "dang girl, you need a shower" threshold.  I haven't been able to think of much to share on the blog this week either.  How can I post about beauty or style when I've worn a different pair of Nike shorts every day this week and my beauty routine has consisted of deodorant and a hair tie?

Making myself feel guilty for not having it all together does have to stop, though.
For you perfect people that can give yourself a salon worthy blow-out at home, close big business deals all day long, update your blog with a beautiful daily post, tend to your organic vegetable garden, workout, AND have a beautiful, wholesome meal on the dinner table every night?
 I might have to skip your social media posts for a while, because I just can't with you right now."

Man, oh man.  Bitter, party of one?


Of course, in moments of self-doubt, insecurity, or just mental exhaustion in general, The Everygirl always manages to publish an article that seems to perfectly encompass my feelings and help me understand how to overcome them*.   This time was no exception.

"Overcoming the Fear of Not Being Good Enough"

It was a beautiful read.  Truly.  I encourage you to read it, and let me know your thoughts.

Do you worry about not being "good" enough? Successful enough? Healthy enough?
Heck -- happy enough?

What do you do to overcome your insecurities?


Alright, now.  It's time for this girl to grab a shower.














*Seriously, I love that website, y'all.



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Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Currently

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Drinking:  Water (wow, really starting this feature off with a bang, huh?)

Eating: The sweetest, juciest strawberries that I've ever purchased -- for less than $2, at that!

Listening: "WHY YOU GOTTA BE SO RUUUUDE?" You know the one.  Get out of my head, Magic!

Reading: I'm about to start #GIRLBOSS and I. Cannot. WAIT.  Have any of you read it?  What did you think?  I've heard nothing but good things!

Watching: Since finishing Orange is the New Black (best finale ever, by the way), I've started watching the first season of Silicon Valley.  It's laugh out loud funny!

Wearing:  I haven't stopped carrying this Cuyana tote since it arrived on my doorstep two weeks ago.

Feeling: Disappointed in the latest issue of Domino.  I usually pour over a magazine 4-5 times reading, rereading, studying features, etc... but I barely made it through one flip through this time.  Since they've started reissuing, I've really only enjoyed the second issue. Tell me I'm not alone!

Thinking: WHY YOU GOTTA BE SO RUUUUUDE? Seriously.  Cannot get it out of my head, y'all.
 Please send help.

Craving:  A pedicure and a spray tan.  

Working:  Ever since the gals at The NotWedding invited Tailor & Table to be one of the designers for this year's Charleston event, we've been working on it non-stop to ensure that it's the most beautiful event ever! I can't wait to see it come to life next month (and Charleston readers, tune it tomorrow -- I want you to be able to see it come to fruition too!).



And one last time, for good measure:






Monday, June 16, 2014

Inspiration | Illustrations by Grace Ciao

Ugh, Monday.

Woof.

How about we not use our words today?  Instead, let's take a few moments to admire these ethereal fashion-meets-floral illustrations from the inspired Grace Ciao (and yes, they all use real flower petals!).

These delicate works of beauty can brighten even the dreariest of mornings.

























Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Wedding Wednesday with Bonobos


Married and engaged ladies -- I don't know about y'all, but finding the perfect suit for Levi was one of the most frustrating parts of wedding planning.  We just wanted a modern, slim cut suit in a breathable fabric.  Everything was either too high school prom or too "I borrowed this from my dad".  Neither is a good look for the biggest day of your life!  

I wish we would have known about Bonobos and their slim cotton suit three years ago.  The fit is flawless and cotton is perfect for summertime affairs!  Can we also talk about that shade of navy?  It's so divine that I felt inspired to put together a design board using the suit as my main source of inspiration.  It's a shade that could go with almost any palette, but I love the way it compliments rich berries and wood tones that remind me of late summer!


The groom's ensemble can make as much of an impact as the bride's, don't you agree?





Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Real Talk | Budgeting

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Ahh. The "B" word.

BUDGET.

Doesn't it just send chills up and down your spine?
(And not in a good way)

Considering that I quit my full-time job last September to start my own company, we've had to be extra careful with our pennies this year (and will continue to be for the foreseeable future).  While Levi and I aren't anal organized enough to input every single purchase into a spreadsheet with categories like "groceries", "gas", and "parking tickets" (yes, that last category would be completely necessary in our household), we do make a very conscious effort to pay attention to how and when we are spending to make sure it's done responsibly.  Over the past few months, we've implemented a few new habits that really make a difference to our bottom line.

I know what y'all are thinking.

"Didn't that hoochie just get back from two weeks in Europe?  Doesn't sound like she is the best person to be doling out budgeting advice."

You're right.  But don't you want to know HOW we had the money to take that very expensive trip?
 Read on.



Cancel Cable
When Levi first suggested this, I threw my hands in the air and yelled "I would rather die!".  Hm, dramatic much?  In reality, canceling cable has been the easiest and most effective way to cut back on our budget.  We signed up for a Netflix subscription for $8 a month, thus saving us $72 every single month (and $864 a year*).  Honestly?  We watch just as much TV as we did when we had cable, except now we're enjoying more quality programming.  Think less Real Housewives, more House of Cards.  Sure we miss some live events, but all in all, this was the best decision we made for our wallets (and our minds).

No "Extra" Groceries
Simply put, we** don't buy any snack food.  No chips, cookies, no soda.   We buy what we need for meals and that's about it.  Not only does this fatten our wallets, but it also shrinks our waistline.  Levi has lost almost 20lbs since we stopped buying snacks! I haven't been so lucky, but not having junk in the house helps me stay on track.  It also prevents mindless eating -- before I eat leftovers "just because", I think about the costs and how that could easily equate to another meal.  Granted, there are just two of us and I could see this being much more difficult for those of you with little mouths to feed.  We also don't eat out very often -- maybe twice a month or so on average (and upscale restaurants are few and far between). 

 Essentials Only
Beauty products are my weakness.  I'm always looking for the next best thing, which can lead to some unnecessary expenditures.  Lately, I've been focusing on using up what items I already own.  Hopefully, this also results in some more space in my bathroom drawers!  I only buy something new if I'm replacing an essential item that I've used up.  I just recently replaced a lot of my essentials at the Sephora F&F sale in the fall, so I should be set for quite a while.

Utilities
If we leave the room, we turn out the light.  Our house always a little uncomfortable, temperature-wise***.  It may not be much, but it adds up.

Clothes & Decor
Ugh, shopping.  This is the hardest area for me, no doubt.  I like to shop when I'm happy, shop when I'm sad, or just shop when I'm bored.  This goes for both clothing and home decor.  I don't have a good answer on how to cut back.  Honestly, I'm trying to just cut it out all together for the time being.  I already own some wonderful pieces, so it's all about working with what I've got.  When I do make a purchase, it's almost always an item already on sale (or with a discount code), and I never forget to check Ebates for extra savings.  Paying full price is for the birds! I do plan on allowing myself one or two small purchases a month.   This blog is an amazing resource for edited, conscientious shopping.  It's really changed the way I mentally approach my wardrobe!

Get Moving
One thing that I have not cut out of the budget is my gym membership.  While it does cost me quite a bit every month, I see it as a money saver.  Why?  Well, let me explain -- rather than taking an hour a day wandering through Target (almost always resulting in a loss of $100), I can take that hour and go to the gym.  It gets me out of the house and keeps me busy at a place where I'm not tempted to spend a dime.  Oh yeah, there's all of those physical and mental health benefits too.  Hooray for me.  Of course, you could save even more money by forgoing a membership and running outside/working out at home too.  I just know myself, and if I don't have my spin instructor yelling at me to turn up that dial, I'm just going to be lazy.  If my couch is within eyesight, a workout just isn't going to happen!



I know that everyone's situation is different, but we've had great luck with some of the methods discussed above.  However, I know we can continue to improve and be even more financially responsible, so I'd love to hear how you all make your budgets work for you.

What are your best money saving tips?  I'd love to implement a few of them!








*Yes, I had to use a calculator to get that figure. Shuddup.

**You like how I said "we" like Levi steps foot in a grocery store, ever?

*** I use throw blankets when it's cold, lounge in my underwear when I'm hot.  I would recommend investing in window coverings if you adopt this approach.


Sunday, June 8, 2014

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Friday, June 6, 2014

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I think that sums up my impending weekend pretty darn nicely.


Happy Friday, everyone!



Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Europe Recap in 10 Minutes or Less

So who likes reading super long vacation recap posts that take over a blog for 2+ weeks?

*Crickets*

Thought so.
As it turns out, I hate writing them just as much as you hate reading them.

And THIS is why we're friends.


So here's my European adventure recap, in "ain't nobody got time for that" style:


Refresher Course: Levi and I spent two weeks in mid-May visiting Brussels (Belgium), Bruges (Belgium), Amsterdam (Netherlands), Munich (Germany), and Prague (Czech Republic).


Favorite City: Amsterdam
  Turns out, there is SO much more to Amsterdam than the red light district and legal weed.  Even in the rain and cold, it's the most beautiful place I've ever been. The people are kind, the streets are charming, and there's a general feeling of happiness and contentment that permeates the air.  This was Levi's favorite city as well.  Bruges and Munich tie for second (but this is like comparing apples to oranges -- we loved them both for vastly different reasons!).


Had to document our 30 seconds of sunshine in Amsterdam


Sweetest Digs:
We stayed Airbnb in every city and LOVED IT.  I would highly recommend giving it a shot on your next trip!  Every place we stayed ended up being wonderful, but I wouldn't be mad if I had to move into our Brussels apartment.  It was huge and really well decorated!


Corner of the living room in our flat in Brussels, Belgium


Best Meals: 
Cafe Savoy for brunch (Prague - we stayed across the street and may have eaten here multiple times), homemade truffle ravioli with ingredients from the Marienplatz Market (Munich), bagel sandwiches from Delish (Brussels - ate here multiple times too, whoops)


Shopping for dinner ingredients in Munich (say hello to Levi's finger!)


Cafe Savoy in Prague.  Order the french toast.  TRUST ME on this one.


Most Delectable Dessert:
Waffle with Chocolate Ganache from street stand (Amsterdam). Although, ganache isn't the right word.  Chocolate sauce isn't either.  Whatever it was, it was magical.  Heck, I don't even like waffles most of the time.


Didn't get a photo of our magical waffle, but we did devour crepes in Prague


Best Beer:
Any beer sold in Belgium.  Seriously.  We drank so many beers in Bruges that our lovely bartender offered us a place to sleep it off if needed.  Ounce for ounce, we had more beer than water throughout the trip.  Half of my trip photos are portraits of beers that I drank.
I regret nothing.


Levi looking through the epic beer list in Bruges. 


Hofbrauhaus in Munich.  I lived off of carbs for two weeks.


Most Fashionable City:
Amsterdam (Munich was a semi-close second).  I tip my hat to anyone that can look impossibly chic while riding a bike in the rain.  I wanted to take photos of strangers but thought that might be creepy.  Next time!


Best Shopping:
Amsterdam & Munich.  Amsterdam had the best locally owned boutiques but Munich had the best big brand shopping.  I bought a dress from COS in Amsterdam and as well as a pair of shoes from Maison Scotch, of Scotch & Soda Amsterdam Couture.  


Favorite Tourist Activity:
Mike's Bike Tours in Munich.  If you're ever in Munich or Amsterdam, book a tour with Mike's.  Our guide was SO fun and really informative.  We saw a side of Munich that we would have never found on our own!  Had the weather been nicer, we would have taken some of the other tours that they offered.  I'd give them a million thumbs up if I could.

Only hit one parked car before I got the hang of it.


Most Thoughtful Museum:
Dachau Concentration Camp (10 miles outside of Munich, Germany).  It truly was a sombering experience, but the museum portion was very well done.   We spent close to 3 hours there, and I could have easily stayed for 3 more.


Most Amazing Moment:
Three-way tie here! Listening to the most amazing violin player in a tunnel outside of the Rijksmuseum (Amsterdam), riding bikes through the breathtakingly beautiful English Garden (Munich), stumbling upon a free outdoor performance by the Czech Symphony (Prague).  All three moments sent chills up my spine and almost caused my heart to explode with happiness.


The English Garden is Munich's "Central Park", if you will


One of my favorite days in Munich



IN CONCLUSION:

The John Lennon Wall in Prague.  Stumbled upon this on our very last day and it gave me ALL the feels.



That wasn't too painful, right?
(Shh, that's a rhetorical question)


Want more photos?
I posted a million more pictures on Instagram (@natalia_etc)!

Want more information?
Please email me at allthethingsetc@gmail.com.  I'd love to talk travels with you!



Sunday, June 1, 2014

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Thursday, May 29, 2014

I'm Back

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...But not unpacked.

Still trying to catch up on work, house stuff, and mountains of laundry*, but it's good to be home!  I'm looking forward "seeing" all of you, hearing about what I missed, and sharing lots of details from our European adventure :).

But now, it's time for emails and Georgia snuggles.  I missed them so much (snuggles, not emails).

Until tomorrow!







*We only took two carry-on bags.  Where did all of the laundry come from?! 


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Monday, April 21, 2014

Little Moments




I snapped this photo bright and early Easter morning, just as the sun was starting to peak through the curtains.  We usually don't allow Georgia on our bed, but she was a nervous nelly the night before, so we let her up to help curb the anxiety.  I spent the next several hours fighting for sheets and bed space.  She obviously wanted to stay close to her dad in case something scary came after her ;).  I have to admit, waking up to this special scene made it worth the cramped sleeping quarters and extra load of laundry today.


There really is beauty in life's tiniest details.




How was your weekend?  Where did you find your beauty?





Friday, April 18, 2014

It's a Good Friday

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Happy Friday, y'all!

I wasn't planning on posting today, but I'm in such a good mood that I just wanted to share a few things that make me happy today.

- St. Germain Margarita.  WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE?

- Speaking of margaritas, our DIY jalapeno infused vodka is ready to be consumed today! We're going to sit on the porch and share sweet and spicy jalapeno and pineapple cocktails and fish tacos tonight.

- I've been on a huge sneaker kick (pun intended) recently -- from Converse to Nike, I love them all.  The Glitter Guide has some great tips on how to style athletic footwear! What are your thoughts?  If they weren't sold out of my size, these puppies would be mine.

- The cutest, cheekiest cocktail napkins I've ever seen.  I need them for my bar cart!

- I tried this hair mask based on Ashley's recommendation, and it's all that and more. 

- I am BEYOND excited to be the winner of Jessica's Art Print + Turkish Towel giveaway! Best Friday ever, y'all.  Thanks again, J!



Enjoy your weekend, everyone! Make it count!

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